Tuesday, January 21, 2025

The Short Life of Mary Rounding

Way out in the middle of nowhere, along South Dakota highway 28, sits a quiet little unobtrusive cemetery.  It’s something you could drive by a million times and never realize it was there – unless you happened to see the white sign saying, “Peck Cemetery - Dakota Territory” hanging from a fencepost.  Although the few remaining stones are toppled and broken, someone neatly mows the final resting place of these pioneers, all of them with their stories that have mostly been lost to time.  Most of the stones are unidentifiable, but among them sits the grave of Mary A. Rounding, a young woman who left this earth in 1883, far from her home.

               Mary was the daughter of John and Cynthia Rounding of Mount Carmel, Illinois.  Her father was in the service of the Union Army and died before his daughter had even turned two years old.  A member of Company G, 41st Infantry, he fought in the infamous Battle of Shiloh, Tennessee. This bloody, savage battle lasted two days, hard fought by both sides.  It was an important victory for the Union as it allowed Ulysses S. Grant to penetrate the interior of the South and make his way to Corinth, Mississippi.  The wounded hero survived for a short time, but sanitation was lacking and disease was rampant.  Two weeks after the end of the battle, John succumbed to his illness and wounds on April 20, 1862.  His widow was left to raise their tiny daughter without him.  He was a hero.  But not the only hero in his family.

               Young Mary, the namesake of her maternal grandmother, grew to young adulthood with her mother, stepfather, and seven half-siblings.  In the spring of 1882, she left her family behind and accompanied her great-uncle, Capt. Samuel B. Lingenfelter and his wife Mary Eliza to Altoona township, Dakota Territory.  Mrs. Lingenfelter had several children, and also was in the later stage of consumption so Mary’s presence was greatly needed and valued. 

               On a stormy evening in August 1883 everything changed.  A vicious cyclone hit the Altoona area, destroying buildings, crops, livestock, and anything in its path - which unfortunately included the Lingenfelter home.  Mary shielded the children from flying debris and hail the size of chicken eggs.  While trying to rescue them from the rubble, Mary sustained a serious spine injury and died less than a week later.  Mrs. Lingenfelter, who herself would pass away two months afterward, spoke with the highest of praise for Mary.  Heroism must run in their family. 

               Out there in the middle of nowhere, under a broken gravestone, lies Mary Rounding.  She was a valiant soul who, like her father, gave her all – her very life – for the good of others.  Her story deserves to be heard and known and remembered.  SHE deserves to be known and remembered.  



Photo courtesy of Stan Phillippi, Jan. 2025


Source List

Photograph - Stan Phillippi
Jennifer Littlefield
Obituary of Mary A. Rounding, Mount Carmel Register, Sept. 20, 1883.
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"Tempest Tossed - Mr. Carmel People in the Dakota Cyclone" - Mount Carmel Register, Mount Carmel, Illinois.  Thursday, Aug. 2, 1883, Page 1
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https://civilwar.illinoisgenweb.org/civilwar/r050/048-g-in.html
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Find-a-Grave.com

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